...that's what Shii said. June - How I manifested my soulmate

As humans we all have two primary fears: 1) the fear that we won’t be loved, and 2) the fear that we aren't enough.

Prior to starting Shii Mii, I had both fears. I had the fear that I wouldn’t be able to start a business on my own, and I had the fear that I wouldn’t be loved and accepted by all those around me for stepping out and doing something different from the norm.

We all create stories out of fear. I am sure you can think of one or two stories you have created right now! Most of the time, our stories have no truth to them.

You see, only one out of my two fears actually eventuated. The fear that I wouldn’t be loved and accepted by all those around me did come to pass, but ultimately for my greater good. Creating a business whilst working full time meant that I was largely MIA for 4 months, and as a result I naturally began to lose the close connections I had with some people in my life. When I launched Shii Mii, no one told me directly that they didn’t support me, but actions spoke louder than words. I asked for people to follow Shii Mii on social media for example and not everyone chose to, even some of those who were my closest friends.

Whilst I would have loved for some of the people in my life to be more supportive and more into what I was doing, you grow through what you go through, and I have since learned that it is ok that they weren’t. Most of Shii Mii’s following, and those who share Shii Mii with others, are people that I don’t know, or didn’t know, prior to starting this business. This means that I have begun to find my tribe - the people who have the same interests and aspirations as me right now, as opposed to the interests and aspirations I had 5 years ago.

It is important and necessary to let go of the things that hold you back - whether that be the stories you tell yourself, or the people who are no longer walking on the same path as you. When you let go, you create space for the right things to come into your life.

This week, I just knew I was holding on by my fingernails to some things and people in my life that were no longer serving me, and it was time for me to let go. This meant finally facing the uncomfortable feelings that I had been avoiding. You've been there too, right? As I sat there, feeling a little sad at the realisation that this was it, some chapters have come to an end for me and that I needed to accept it, I kept getting the feeling that a male from my ‘past’ was going to come back in to my life. I was racking my brain to think who it could possibly be but I couldn’t put my finger on it - 'please don't let it be him, or him, and definitely not him...I’d take XYZ though, he was cute!’ (my actual thought pattern haha).

I keep a journal on my bedside table, so I picked it up and in pencil wrote '3/7/2018, Journal Entry - please connect me with my soulmate'. 

Now, keep in mind soulmates aren't always 'The One'. Soulmates can be just that, soulmates. And whilst in my mind I was thinking ‘The One’, ultimately all my soul needed at this time was one of it’s mate, I just didn’t know this in that moment! Sure enough, two days later as I was sitting at my desk, my phone rings at 12:21pm. The name that came up was an old male friend of mine! The Yang to my Yin. Without a doubt, a soulmate

Not only that, he happened to be around the corner! Before I knew it, we were catching up and talking about everything from meditation, business and investments to our lives in general. We clicked like no time had passed since we last saw each other. Just like that half an hour went by! I told him how I had a feeling that a male from my past was going to come back into my life, and he said to me ‘I had a feeling I needed to call you today, so I did’. Coincidence? No. Energy? Yes.

We worked together when I first moved to Canberra, and became inseparable - to the point people actually thought we were in a relationship. We worked in the same team, took our lunch breaks together, and hung out on weekends. There has always been an inexplicable connection between the two of us. A simple knowing and mutual understanding of each other. He brings out the best in me, as I do him. We laugh, have fun, and have done some crazy things - let’s not mention the time we got home in the early hours of a Sunday morning and he made the strange decision to eat my housemates banana when I knew she was planning to make a banana cake the next day! 1. who eats a banana after drinking? 2. it is very difficult to replace a ripe banana in the early hours of the morning!

Our catch-up was exactly what I needed.

I have manifested many things into my life - business collaborations, chance encounters, sales, car parks…the list goes on. There’s a whole heap of guidance out there on manifestation. In my experience, the most important thing is to not be attached to a specific outcome. For example, when I wrote in my journal ‘please connect me to my soulmate’, I was thinking how I’d like it to be ‘The One’ but I wasn’t attached to it being ‘The One’ or attached to it being a particular person. I simply wrote my request and shut my journal. I trusted that what was supposed to occur would unfold, and carried on with my life.

I truly believe we can bring anything into our lives. It is just a matter of being clear on what we truly want, but letting go of how we think it should manifest. When we do this, what comes our way is often far better than what we could have imagined for ourselves!

Let go, and trust.

What went down at Shii Mii this month…

  • 'Shii Mii Moments' for weddings and corporate events were released. Shii Mii Moments contain five affirmation cards wrapped in a black or gold leather band.
  • Shii Mii was spotted at the Minding Her Business Event in Sydney where Roxy Jacenko was the headline speaker, and the Winter Goddess Gathering in Canberra.
  • I was interviewed for an awesome new podcast! I will be sure to share this with you when it is released. 

Shii Mii’s Monthly Giveaway

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A breakup or divorce can be crippling. Individuals feel a loss of identity and purpose, and can struggle to navigate the dark and difficult times that follow.  

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My personal affirmation for this month

I let go and trust. 

 

As always, 'No one is immune to their negative thoughts, but everyone can learn how to live with them. May all your dreams come true'.

- Alaina x

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